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Episode 20: A Manual for Sexy Times
In this episode, we learn about the diverse ways to please a woman, and Dr. Kat reviews a vibrating massager.
Hi, I'm Peter Simon and welcome to another edition of private lives, the podcast with a sexually adventurous Our show is based on the classic erotic newsletter Private Lives published by Adam and Eve back in the day. Throughout our series, you'll find tips on erotic play, erotic stories, sexual research plus toys, and movie reviews. Today's episode is sort of a how-to manual for sexy times. Karen Lafley breaks down the art of cunnilingus and our residents; sexpert Kim Ayres walks us through the forbidden art of the fist. Plus, the adult toy review with Dr. Cat First up, Karen Lafley tells us all about eating out. Yep, you guessed it. I love getting my honey pot, suckled little tastes big hungry laps. I like it all. There are, however, a few things you gentlemen should keep in mind. The clutter is, it's the single most important thing you've got to pay attention to, and diving into the mufe not all guys know where it is. That's okay, boys. I'm here to help. It looks like a pea-sized nub covered by a hood of skin, and it's located just above the vagina. If you're exploring with your tongue, move from the opening of the vagina up, and you'll feel that little pleasure knob up near the top of the slit. It's possible to pull the hood of that skin back and expose the clitoris but Whoa, easy, a big fella that is the most sensitive part of a woman's body, and you can't just go slamming into it full force. Well, for most of us anyway, some of us do like it a little rough. Most women will appreciate clitoral attention, but you want to take it slow and easy, at least at first. Use that overlaying hood of skin to your advantage. Taste it, rub it with your tongue. Move your tongue all around it. You'll get great results moving on to the vagina. The outer lips and entrance to the vagina contain more nerve endings than the interior walls. So work that region though some women occasionally like the thrust of a tongue deep inside their v it's not the main goal work the clutter is the outer lips and the occasional thrust if she likes it, what about the anus? You bet the whole area from the crack of the ass all the way up and under to the clitoris is one big erogenous zone. There are a lot of women who love the feel of a warm, flicking tongue as it gently probes the taut muscles of her ass. Here are five tips from the pros. Number one licking you can look slow, soft, and sensuous to tease and excite or like rapidly to bring on the orgasm to sucking and blowing. In addition to looking around the clip, many women like it when their partner sucks it like a nipple sucking kisses are also great on the outer lips of a woman's purse. You can even alternate hot breath and sucking on the entrance of the vagina. Um, we like those three. Nibbling Be careful nibbling now. It can be anything from using your lips for tugging or sharp little bites for stiff tongue action great for probing her openings are for those ladies who like maximum clitoral Kontakt five, flattened tongue uses broad sweeping strokes, lick her belly mound breasts and inner thighs like this. You can also lap that tongue from her asked her clitoral at an erotic leisurely pace. And finally, positions with her on her back and you on your belly between her legs is probably the most natural position. She can lay back and enjoy the sensation, and you'll have great access to her honeypot. She can kneel or squat over your face or get on her hands and knees facing away from you. This allows great penetrating strokes and great anal play. And of course, the 69 this way you're both getting and giving at the same time the lish Okay boys have fun with those tongues and ladies play you just enjoy for private lives. I'm Karen Lafley. Thanks, Karen. Up next, the forbidden art of the fist with our residents. sexpert, Kim, eres fisting. What is it about? Oh, my gosh, fisting. Yes, you heard right fisting that is inserting a fist into either the vagina or the anus. Yep. It's a pretty intense sex practice. As you can imagine, you want to have buckets of lubricant available. So lube and relaxation are the main things and communication to just start out with a simple pinky going inside, or an index finger or middle finger, and index finger, these two, you want to really relax the outside of the vagina. Now you'll notice when your fingers are next to each other, they're a lot wider. If you make your fingers into more of this pointy duckbill shape, it will more naturally fit inside the vagina. A really easy thing to do, too, is to use a latex or vinyl glove because that'll make your hand slipping a lot more easily, and you don't have to worry about fingernails you want to wind up and to make a twisting motion, not necessarily pushing in, but this will relax the muscles around the vagina when the area is really relaxed, and they're breathing really well, and they're not tensing up so much as a response, but maybe perhaps is an orgasmic response, the way to finally get a fist in there is to twist it in a way so that the knuckles will slide in between the pubic bone which is on the top by the navel, and the Cox x bone, which is the backbone. So there's an open area and the pelvis that the knuckles can actually swing in with a twist from the pubic bone to the toxic, and the knuckles can get absorbed inside the vagina. Now, that's kind of a smaller area. So when that happens, you go with your hand, from the duckbill shape to crunching up your hand into a fist, the fingers get folded in, the thumb usually stays up towards the top to make it a nice taper like that. And the hand gets sucked inside. It's a sensation that's really intense, both for the giver and the receiver. And a lot of times, she will clench down as a natural response to this and orgasm, so you feel like your hand is going to be taken off, but believe me, it'll relax again. And a lot of times, the clenching takes part around the wrist of the giver. You can make your fist pulse a little bit. And even the most subtle movements will be felt by the recipient. The way to remove the hand is basically the same way that you went in again. Just twist it so the knuckles are in between the pubic bone and the Cox's bone. So it'll be sliding through, and then take the hand out of the fisting shape to form that duckbill shape to slide out. Now guess what to do anal fisting to the same thing. There's no natural lubrication that exists there. So you want to use a lot more lubricant. Also, to is when you're going up through the anus. For the men, they'll get the prostate gland stimulated and a lot more because there's no end there. The hand can go a little bit further than just the wrist, so you can discover some really interesting areas of the body. If you're going to be doing anal fisting, the body will recover by itself. You don't have to worry about it. Use lots of lubrication. Use lots of communication if something's uncomfortable, say wait a minute, add more lube, maybe not try it that night or that day. Sure everybody knows how to communicate with each other. And yes, evening. This thing can be added to your repertoire safely and comfortably. Thanks, Kim. My name is Peter Simon. And thank you for listening. I leave you now with Dr. Cat and the adult Toy Review. Hello, I'm Dr. Cat Bankert, clinical sexologist Marriage and Family Therapist, and your adult toy correspondent. The toy I'm reviewing for you today is Adam Neves Symphony massager. The thing that I like about this massager is that it's coated in essential velvety, soft velvet coat skin. So your seven half inches tall massager feels really soft and sexy against your most sensitive areas. It's very easy to hold. It's got a very sleek gription design to it. So you can actually have a lot of control during the course of your play with this toy. And it's waterproof too. So it's really great for the tub, shower, or pool, and there are actually quite a few settings on it that you can experiment with. There's the moderate, which is a nice low buzz. There's an intense setting that has got more staccato, and then there's the tango which is pretty much just like it sounds. It's like an erotic dance for your clitoral and vagina. There's the quickstep which is a more get er did set, and the samba, which is kind of work your way up tees and pleases setting; the scooped tip can be used for clitoral vibration as well, so you don't have to use it just for vaginal vibration, and it's very easy to clean up with warm soap and water.
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